Parents always asking him or throwing the same question to his friend, “Where did my kid learned these from?” Do remember a fact that you kid born with a pure and holy mind, without polluted by any wrong lesson, except he adapted what he think is right from what he saw from daily life. Kids always think that their parents is right from top to bottom, what parent do, say and act every day is correct without any error – you are a model to your kid!

Something had made me mad, and I cannot get rid of my anger since just now.

It was a school day jam as usual around the Damansara Toll of LDP, a car just show signal to the right and stop his car, and the back door open and guess what? A boy who I believe is the son of the driver came out and throws a plastic bag at the roadside!!!

I started to detect something fishy may be happening from the backside of his car, but I never expect that I will witnessed it with my own eye.

Dear parent to the kid,

Don’t expect your kid going to be a good boy in future, as you just allow him to do something morally and legally wrong, I am expecting to see your kid acting arrogantly in the school, even he did something wrong. I also can sense that he will be against his teacher’ teaching and saying that we he did in the daily life is right, because it been taught by his own father!

Sociologically, we had portrayed our parent as the decision maker in the family, “The King and Queen who ruled my house” is deeply engraved in the kid’ mind, the kid will always thought that King and Queen’ action are always right, and as the member of the family, I should follow the pace.

Slowly, the way he speak and do will be exactly same with the parent, plus we dress the kids as same as the parent, which made the kid think that “I looks like my daddy now, so what he did is right and there will be nothing wrong!”

I have nothing against the “dress-a-like” culture, but if the parent is a worst example, then better don’t do the “dress-a-like” thing in your family.

So do remember you are actually the role for your kid to follow, do good or do worst!